Muslim Girl's Ramblings

As each day of the month passes I find myself facing different dilemmas. I feel lost and confused in search of someone to talk to.. the right person to talk to. Not someone that will judge; not someone who will walk in and out whenever they please; not someone who isn't ready to help. Someone who understands me; understands that I cant undo everything that has happened; someone who wont start shouting at me or telling me off for things that were not under my control. 
Its not easy finding someone you trust with you secrets but when that person steps into your world your life changes drastically. The feeling off getting your problems off your chest is unbelievable. So much stress is taken off your mind, less burden for you to carry on your shoulders, no baggage to drag behind you like a shadow.
It obviously doesnt mean your problems will be solved in the click of a finger but it is the first step and most comforting step in the process of correcting your mistakes. 


Don't bottle it up, it only makes it worse <3

I Believe in me, Therefore You should Believe in You.

The voice of our original self is often muffled, silenced, overwhelmed, even strangled, by the voices of other people’s expectations.That's why we want you to believe in your dreams; believe in yourself. It is our attitude at the beginning of a difficult task which, more than anything else, will affect It's successful outcome..so lets motivate ourselves by making each other believe that we are the greatest things possible on planet earth. 


‎"Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there" - Josh Billings 

See your goal, Aim, Score!

Many people feel as if they're adrift in the world. They work hard, but they don't seem to get anywhere worthwhile. A key reason that they feel this way is that they haven't spent enough time thinking about what they want from life, and haven't set themselves formal goals. After all, would you set out on a major journey with no real idea of your destination? Probably not!

Goal setting is a powerful process for thinking about your 'ideal' future, and for motivating yourself to turn your vision of this future into reality. The process of setting goals helps you choose where you want to go in life. By knowing precisely what you want to achieve, you know where you have to concentrate your efforts. You'll also quickly spot the distractions that can easily, lead you astray but if determintation is present then nothing will steer you away form the target.

16 days to Ramadhan.. and counting!

Spread salaam not hate.
Islam is complete, so I can't lose faith.
Don't ask why I don't go on dates,
taqwa is the goal, 
gotta feed the soul, 
that's why I gotta fast and when I do I break it with fresh dates. 
Never giving up explaining it to my mates
You are you what you eat, 
gotta choose halal meat.
Keep it Sunnah, 
can't have a complete week without Jumu'ah
insh'Allah next month we'll be in Ramadan, yup for the whole Ummah!

Mashallah, I cannot believe how quickly this year has past. It has been full of blessings from Allah(swt) and I couldn't have asked for anything more. I have has my ups and downs but I enjoyed the ups and learnt form the downs. Isn't that what life is about? Learning from your mistakes to make yourself a better person so next time you don't repeat the mistake.. of course its not that you wont make any mistake ever again but those mistakes will also teach you how to improve everything from your personality, spirituality etc. 

problems.. do they ever end?

Life is full of problems, complications and responsibilities. Each one of us has so many issues to deal with, be it money, career, family, relationships or education, with each day challenging our strength and will power. A successful person is one who takes up these challenges and emerges out victorious. However, have you ever wondered that with so many beautiful things in life to explore, why do we always end up losing our minds over the future, and not caring about the present? Remember, the trick to a happy and contented life is to consider life one day at a time and enjoy every moment to the fullest.

Trend setter? Follower? or just Unique?

Its an everyday problem in the life of a teenage girl. Bitchiness. Backbiting. Hating. Discriminating because your not wearing the latest fashions, or following the new trend, or even because you wear the beautiful Hijaab. but why? I was once told 'be a Shepard not a sheep' I'm not saying i'm a leader or want people to follow me but Why do we feel like being different is a wrong thing? i don't like to follow the crowd i like to be.. unique.. i like to be Me. 
Why try to be someone else when there is no-one else in the world that can do a better job of being you that you? why try be someone else when there are people out there that like you for who you are?
My advice..? You dont live to please your so-called 'friends' you live to please God and only God.. well I do anyway.. 

P.S - sorry i havnt blogged for ages been busy but i cam across this issue so thought i would blog it :)

Im a #HappyHijaabi

Poem: Im a Happy Hijaabi :)

People look. People stare,
They look at me with an ignoranced glare.
Look at her - she's out of place,
She's only showing her hands and face!
They never intend to know the reason,
Only imagine it to be a form of treason.
People question. People wonder,
About the influences I am under.
Why I cover-up from head-to-toe,
So that my physical body doesn’t show!
My personality and character are more,
Than can be shown with clothes from any store
People think. People assume,
That we are in a state of gloom.
Those Muslim women must be oppressed,
Just look at how they are dressed!
If they knew how I feel inside,
All their beauty they also hide.