Trend setter? Follower? or just Unique?

Its an everyday problem in the life of a teenage girl. Bitchiness. Backbiting. Hating. Discriminating because your not wearing the latest fashions, or following the new trend, or even because you wear the beautiful Hijaab. but why? I was once told 'be a Shepard not a sheep' I'm not saying i'm a leader or want people to follow me but Why do we feel like being different is a wrong thing? i don't like to follow the crowd i like to be.. unique.. i like to be Me. 
Why try to be someone else when there is no-one else in the world that can do a better job of being you that you? why try be someone else when there are people out there that like you for who you are?
My advice..? You dont live to please your so-called 'friends' you live to please God and only God.. well I do anyway.. 

P.S - sorry i havnt blogged for ages been busy but i cam across this issue so thought i would blog it :)

Im a #HappyHijaabi

Poem: Im a Happy Hijaabi :)

People look. People stare,
They look at me with an ignoranced glare.
Look at her - she's out of place,
She's only showing her hands and face!
They never intend to know the reason,
Only imagine it to be a form of treason.
People question. People wonder,
About the influences I am under.
Why I cover-up from head-to-toe,
So that my physical body doesn’t show!
My personality and character are more,
Than can be shown with clothes from any store
People think. People assume,
That we are in a state of gloom.
Those Muslim women must be oppressed,
Just look at how they are dressed!
If they knew how I feel inside,
All their beauty they also hide.